Same here, FB keeps me up to date with family and friends overseas and Canada and US. Having said that, most of them knew I had lost my dog and their sympathy comforted me. Losing a fur baby is losing a member of the family. When my parents died there was no facebook but I certainly didn't feel like chatting about it on an BBS. When my sister died, I really had other things to worry about. FB was the last place I wanted to be. Everyone re-acts differently to a death in the family or a spouse, but for sure writing a 'drama' on FB about how you fell in love is maybe even a bit too strange for my taste. Besides I don't even think Renate is intelligent enough to even care about politics. Anyone who hides her 'money stash' in the sofa instead of opening up a secret bank account isn't very savy.