SunriseChampion
Senior Member
@steveintoronto, regarding that email you posted an excerpt from, the epidemic (and it is an epidemic) of dick pics is actually mind-boggling. Every single one of my girlfriends who has tried internet dating has been subjected to unsolicited dick pics from guys they had just recently met.
These ladies are all in their late 20s-very early 30s and so are the guys sending the dick pics. These are sent by a majority of guys they meet. Contrary to what your correspondent says in the email, they do not accept it and couldn't give a fu*k about pleasing a bunch of man-child wankers. In my circle of friends, dick pics are grounds for immediate blacklisting.
It's not attractive and I have no idea where guys who are the same age as me got the idea that any lady with even a shred of self-respect would find it endearing. I hear the stories from my friends all the time and can't get my head over the fact that these guys are my peers. I didn't go to a special school of courtship but I sure as hell know how to treat people with respect and know well enough what women find attractive. These people are complete man-child wastemen and ladies with self-respect do not accept it.
As for the Tinder date abuse...that's a real thing as well. Guys who are almost immediately possessive and controlling, after a single date....and worse, unfortunately.
It's so bad that I'm on constant stand-by as a potential intervening male in case shit goes completely sideways.
I'm not sure what happened to vast numbers of people in my generation but they sure as hell didn't learn how to live life very well. Shitty parents, I guess.
These ladies are all in their late 20s-very early 30s and so are the guys sending the dick pics. These are sent by a majority of guys they meet. Contrary to what your correspondent says in the email, they do not accept it and couldn't give a fu*k about pleasing a bunch of man-child wankers. In my circle of friends, dick pics are grounds for immediate blacklisting.
It's not attractive and I have no idea where guys who are the same age as me got the idea that any lady with even a shred of self-respect would find it endearing. I hear the stories from my friends all the time and can't get my head over the fact that these guys are my peers. I didn't go to a special school of courtship but I sure as hell know how to treat people with respect and know well enough what women find attractive. These people are complete man-child wastemen and ladies with self-respect do not accept it.
As for the Tinder date abuse...that's a real thing as well. Guys who are almost immediately possessive and controlling, after a single date....and worse, unfortunately.
It's so bad that I'm on constant stand-by as a potential intervening male in case shit goes completely sideways.
I'm not sure what happened to vast numbers of people in my generation but they sure as hell didn't learn how to live life very well. Shitty parents, I guess.