Gristle, that was a brilliantly written post... and indeed it was so well reasoned that the only thing anyone could do is tell you if you dont like the rules then get out. It's the same thing that blindly patriotic people seem to say a lot. In fact, I doubt if either of those previous posters actually read what you typed. All they have is irrational, reactionary responses that paint reasonable people as NIMBY's or "terrorists" depending on the scope of the conversation. I know the type.
Sorry to disappoint you, but I'm not getting out. I am working to have the "rules" changed. The post that follows mine is symptomatic of the binary thinking that tends to make its way into forums like this - anyone who is opposed to any particular development is then somehow automatically tarred as a mere "nimby." Anyway, as that is the sentiment held by some here, I'll focus my attention on other efforts, and less on posting here. It is clear that the word "urban" appears to be lost on certain members who confuse this (willfully or not) solely with how tall a building is.
I live in a community that is under intense development. We - many of the residents here - work hard at trying to have development that is reasonable in scale and density, development that suits the neighbourhood in the present and for the long term. This, in our opinion, is development that fits better into the category of city-building, and obviously much less into tower-foaming concerns the fixate solely on how tall a building is. We recognize and embrace that we live downtown - otherwise why would we be living here? To the tower-foamer crowd, we are in the way. We should get out. For that crowd, it seems to be tower projection over people and over neighbourhoods and communities.
For reasonable development to occur, there must be rules and guidelines. Rules and guidelines must not only be about structure, density and building envelopes, but about people, services, transit, traffic, green space and environment (physical and natural). Those are urban concerns. People who live in a neighbourhood may also have concerns - and they should be heard and addressed. They should not be treated like mere road cones on a route to inevitable development. The OMB does not listen to neighbourhood or personal concerns. That is not their mandate. The city councillor can listen to resident concerns - be it from individuals or community groups - but the councillor must also weigh those concerns with others issues (such as social housing needs, transit, commercial interests, etc). Some councillors are good at this, others not. Vaughan, in my opinion, is outstanding at this. Tower foamers typically hate him.
That said, a councillor can't stop a project. So to call for any further reduction in the capacity of that democratically elected official from having any impact in the ward to which he or she was elected is to grant a carte blanche right to developers to sell and build whatever they please. Developers are a notoriously self-interested bunch. To think otherwise is to be criminally naive. Their project is always the greatest thing, the best development ever, the prettiest architecture devised. Others are allowed to dispute that - and they should if they see it as necessary. When putting up permanent structures like buildings, it should be a case of the developer achieving a right to build, not residents, communities or the city as a whole being forced to bend to whatever a developer wants or feels is right in pursuing profit.
Bad buildings, poorly "designed" neighbourhoods and a bad development process that runs over people has had - and will have - consequences, short and long term. One can avoid many of those consequences by pushing for a more reasonable development and planning process. Otherwise, the bad developments of today will simply stay as the bad realities of tomorrow - with many of them turning into costly fixes.