Please remain civil - just because you don't agree with me isn't a reason for personal attacks. Even if I am 100% wrong.
Come on, give
@DirectionNorth and all the rest of us a break!
You already
shouted “personal attacks!” when someone merely insinuated that having lived in Montreal, but not Ottawa might cloud your perception about the relative size of both cities.
And then in the
very next post, you have the audacity to accuse me of “cherry-picking” when I provide a comprehensive list of population centers recognized as CA/CMAs, but you don’t correct a single figure and then state sarcastically “wow, you missed Hamilton!” when I explicitly counted the “Total CMA/CA population between MTRL and the GT
HA”, you know: the Greater Toronto and *drumroll*
Hamilton Area.
In your
next response, you have the audacity to suggest that I only raise objection against your disrespectful tone because of my “desire to dodge the question”.
And then you
provide the most generic and passive-aggressive “apology” when I merely asked you to please return to a respectful tone ("to remain civil", to use your own words).
Fast forward one day, and it's again your universal complaint “personal attack!”, this time directed at someone who remarks that unless you send us your messages across the boundaries of time, there is no way that your assumptions hold true at the very moment where you were writing them.
Don’t get me wrong: I can understand those people who want to feel valued and respected regardless of whether people agree or disagree with their opinions just as well as those who just want to exchange rational arguments and see any inter-personal sentimentalities and disharmonies as a distraction and waste of energy. However, I personally find the way in which you jump back and forth – and this goes far beyond the last 2 days – between over-sensitivity (whenever someone refers to you as a person in even the most innocent way) and complete tone-deafness (whenever someone expresses not feeling respected by the way you communicate with them) somewhere between inconsistent, hypocritical and even self-righteous.
As much as you apparently perceive yourself as being attacked for simply voicing and vigorously defending a dissenting opinion, when you find yourself contradicted from all directions and nobody bothers to defend at least some of your points, you would make this entire discussion much less frustrating for you and everyone you interact with (including those who just try to read through pages of heated exchanges between yourself and half-a-dozen other people) if you finally started considering that the way how you say things might matter just as much as what you say. Sometimes, the only way to have a friend is to be a friend…
Thank you and have a good night!