CalgarianExOntarian
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this is a no-win trap, don't get caught in it. People start looking for reason and reasons for these illnesses. If only I'd done this... if only I hadn't done that. Why does an innocent child get cancer while a mobster with blood on his hands lives into his 90s (while chain-smoking, no less...). Where is Dick Cheney's cancer? Where is Rumsfeld's cancer? Fucking Kissinger is 91. And how is Keith Richards still alive?
There's no rhyme or reason, no justice, no karma... and even healthy living is no guarantee. Some people simply get cancer. That's it.
THIS.
You have been great on this thread in recent days. (And throughout the RoFo marathon, as far as my middle-age-impaired memory can recall.)
A good, innocent kid I know got diagnosed with leukemia a few years ago, at the age of about 5. After a couple of years of treatment, very rough on him and his family, everything looked good, and he could finally get on with just being a kid. Then, whoa, a blood test said, hey maybe there's a recurrence. Kid said, essentially, I don't think I can go through this again. (Imagine how hard this would be for all involved.) But more tests said, sorry, false positive, just get on with the being-a-kid thing!
That's only one of the cancer-happening-to-family-or-friends stories I know.
I have no patience at all for the cancer-is-karma notion. Current understanding of human biology is a miracle (that kid would have have had a near-zero chance if he had been born a few decades earlier) but at the same time current lack of understanding is a nightmare. The hard, hard stories posted by others here just confirm that to me.
ETA: Kissinger, WTF. Hope he experiences at least some modicum of discomfort, here or in some sort of afterlife.
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