turbanplanner
Senior Member
I've lived in a condo and townhouse and I'd hate to raise kids in either. I don't really care about community bonding since that's what school and clubs/activites are for when it comes to kids.The built form has absolutely nothing to do with good neighborly ties, community camaraderie, etc.
This one of the most persistent Canadian myths, along with the "kids need a backyard to be raised properly."
The number one factor, as always, is people giving a sh*t. Without that, everything falls apart.
Come on, how much community bonding is there in the typical post war suburban subdivision? Little to none and in fact people move to these areas to have more distance from neighbors.
When I used to rent, my building saw an influx of newly arrived Filipino folks. They were very communal with each other. Didn't matter that they lived in a large apartment building.
The 1 nice thing about the townhouse was that I had backyard to let the dog out, but almost all newer ones are stacked and don't even have a backyard!
The condo issues were tons of rules and your monthly maintenance fees (which applies to both types of dwellings) I find in a lot of new-ish buildings that elevators are often a problem. By the time you find a 3 bedroom unit you're likely going to be spending the same every month after you factor in the maintences fees since they're based on sqft.
If you want the grandparents to come over and look after your kids overnight, they're stuck sleeping on the couch.