Contrary to your experiences, I've been pleasantly surprised at how moderates on council have fought back against Ford's misguided agenda, instead of falling back and allowing him to reign undisputed. I'll only lose hope if he gets elected and is able to replace council with cronies that'll support his every move.
As for moving to other more 'progressive' cities, remember that narrowminded, greedy, bigoted and ignorant people exist everywhere and you'll never be able to truely escape them. The best option to expose the lies that some espouse and educate those who don't know better.