Yeah frankly it's embarrassing when you go visit other cities and come back here and you realize how bleak most parts of this city looks. Seems people here don't care. It's the Toronto way.
Some simply pretend church/dundas is "fine", Spadina/Queen is super urban, some even say our waterfront works better than Chicago's. I literally couldn't look at our streets for a months after my trip from Barcelona. A trip to backbay or beacon hill, Boston makes me keep wondering where is Toronto's pretty part? Found none in term of quality.
Interesting points. I agree with a lot of this, and interestingly my insights stem from the fact that the last three years I lived in Boston--right at Mass Ave and Boylston. Boston has a lot wrong with it, but by and large the downtown, by which I mean everything from Little Italy through downtown to Beacon Hill, into Back Bay and over to the South End, is almost immaculately clean, consistent, and pleasant.
Now, over time Boston struck me as a bit too New England posh and manicured. I like some grit, and Toronto has that. But when I moved back home I was dumbfounded at our city. Toronto is my home, so I love it here. But I see it very differently now. It's sad. I want it to be better than it is, and I'm optimistic it can be.
Boston is nice to visit, but living there it can feel like you're walking through a huge doll set.
I honestly don't quite get the negativity here. I mean, Toronto is ugly as sin in spots but other areas are quite beautiful. Conversely I saw some ugly-ass parts of New York and Boston on my last trip down. I can't pretend that a lot of what's nice in New York and Boston is better than what's nice in Toronto but Toronto isn't some horrendous, ugly place either.
On a slightly related note, nothing made me laugh more than seeing people complain about the MBTA not being a "world class system" on the Boston Globe during the massive shutdowns during the February storms. Or people complaining about Staten Island "deserving" a subway despite having none of the density necessary to support one. Toronto's cynicism is hilariously insular at times when we think these problems are only ours.
Yeah, I was talking to a Bostonian yesterday who was freaking out about the T. But, for all its faults, the T is a vastly superior system than the TTC. A small reason why? Fare cards. The magnetic strip reads right through your wallet; so you just take out your wallet, put it against the reader and bam, you're in. Fill-up? Takes less than 15 seconds at an automatic machine
using debit or credit.
It was those little things that added up. I happily spent more on transit there than here because
they made it so easy to give them your money. Coming back to Toronto and losing tokens feels archaic and utterly absurd, and if you don't lose them the token might get stuck in the turnstile and you have to walk to the other station where the attendant is to get let in--if they believe you.
That stuff boils my blood. Or arriving at Pearson and hearing Americans and other foreigners walk onto the Pearson connecting bus and ask, "Uhh, do you accept Euros or $5 American?' Embarrassing and outrageous.
Sorry, very off topic. I know.