You can disregard the views of Jenny and myself all you like. But they are real first hand accounts of first generation immigrants. Myself as an Indian immigrant and Jenny as an East Asian immigrant.
I see where she is coming from.
I for one cherish very deeply the diversity of this country, having been a beneficiary of it. Believe me that there is nobody more proud and defensive of the Canadian policy of taking in people from all over the world. And there is no other place in the world, I believe, where immigrants can rise to the heights they do here either. It's a fact I brag about whenever I am outside Canada. And one that I take great pleasure in demonstrating to our so-called cultured NATO allies every time, we Canadians are on course with them.
All that said, I, like Jenny, worry about what we see in our communities first hand. From my perspective, South Asian immigrants who arrived in TO in the 80s and early 90s were compelled to integrate, learn the language, accept some of the cultural norms simply because it was necessary for survival. Today, one could move from Punjab to Brampton with scarcely any change of lifestyle or norms. It's great that immigrants are so welcome here.
But is that was intentioned when the official policy of multi-culturalism was implemented? That we'd get little Punjab in Brampton and little Hong Kong in Markham? Heck, Punjabis in Brampton don't even bother mixing with other South Asians in Toronto forget other non-indic cultures.
In my view, this is not a multi-cultural and diverse society anymore if people aren't mixing about. It's great that we can buy food from every part of the world. But is that we want Canadian multi-culturalism to be? A giant food festival? I recognize the stats that say children of immigrants integrate in a generation or two. But those stats come from era where there was no critical mass of immigrants in individual immigrant communities. Time will tell how this plays out, but I am willing to bet that we might start seeing a sliver of what's happened in the UK (where increasingly second generation muslim kids have more intolerant and extremist attitudes than their parents).
But I, like Jenny, remain worried. One of the things I fear the most, is that allowing these communities to remain so insular, will inevitably result in them bringing over their cultural baggage. The abuse of women, for example, in South Asian communities is a big one that's only now showing up in stats. The preference to educate girls over boys, will probably also start coming thru. I have now even heard of south asian couples pursuing sex selection for babies (a practice that's banned in India but legal here). It's stuff like this that I worry about. When you set no limits other than the bare bones Ten Commandants stuff, there's a lot of practices that Canadians would find distasteful that slip under the radar.
I don't know what the antidote is. To me, encouraging these communities to interact with other Canadians more is probably a net positive. Encouraging these communities to absorb some of our progressive values is also bound to be somewhat beneficial. If assimilation or integration seems a strong word for these processes then call it something else. But suggesting that the policy as is, will be perfect and won't lead to any problems is a head in the sand approach.
Those of us who live in these communities know first hand the problems that are there. Labeling those of us who speak out as racist, anti-immigration (odd since we are immigrants) bigots, etc. will not help improve the lot of immigrants or Canadians at large.