Glen:
I would love to, actually, but I am afraid the work I have done is in the private domain and it is not for me to share in any formal way. That said, if we crosses path in real life, I am sure I can tell you of what I've learned anonymously AND informally
Besides, since the two of you were the first to quote what you've learned from your sister and in-laws in this thread, shouldn't the rest of us be provided the evidence so that we can make our judgement as to whether what you've learned from the experiences of others is valid? It's only fair, no? Of course, I can understand that demanding evidence of this nature can be horribly, horribly intrusive ones' privacy...
AoD