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Superstar
Well the first step is to acknowledge that not everything is in black and white (move away from the “you either have education/experience or no education/experience” mindset). Things like architectural beauty can be subjective. In that context, a little empathy, humility and openness can go a long way.
And ironically, it's the "a little empathy, humility and openness" argument that's being offered on behalf of *not* unilaterally trashing the Sheraton Centre aesthetic, or "concrete brutal" aesthetic in general--broaden thy scope, etc...