Rather, when Iooking at those in society who die short of a long, full life; why should any one of those be honoured over another, by the population at large?
If the idea is that it was voluntary; its worth saying that a great many of the soldiers in both world wars were conscripts, and theoretically faced jail for not joining the war.......
That doesn't diminish any soldiers or family's sacrifice; but we don't spend the same effort honouring fallen miners who extract metals we all use; or fallen farm workers or constructions workers whose voluntary efforts are in service of the rest of us eating and having buildings in which to live and work.