in a lot of immigrant/minority families colleges are looked down upon very harshly by thier parents and university is seen as the only way to go.
That is how it was for me and for a lot of people i know.
"Son, you better be going to university or else THAT RESP IS USELESS!!"
I'm on the other side of the coin. When my family immigrated (or is that emigrated?) to Canada my Dad had only a high school education, but was already a senior sales and marketing man with an international firm. I went to university myself, as do many kids of immigrants, in my case an arts degree, then followed by a stint in business at GB college, before landing my career in international business.
For my own kids, I will not force them to go to university. In fact, I won't let them go (both will have RESP's worth about $45 - $50K each by the time they're ready to go) to university unless it's part of a larger career plan of their's. So, no general arts degree as a method to extend childhood and postpone the realworld, I did that, and got lucky on the career path, but I want my girls to have goals, and then a plan to get there through strategic educational choices. It's my job as their parent to ensure that they keep up their grades in mathematics, sciences, languages, English and the arts, thus allowing them to choose unlimited paths when they graduate from highschool. With hard work, they'll have the grades and the finances from their family to follow their dreams, so they can't blow it on a do nothing degree.
If they want to be electricians, plumbers, mechanics, gardeners or even computer science geeks, as long as they're happy, and do the best they can in the field, that's good enough for me.