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This is too funny! Only Kyle isn't laughing.

3Dementia

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On the very same day that the Cathedral Square story ran in the POST ... in which Mr. Rae was kind enough to call me "abusive... demanding to see him" (after being blown off promised meetings etc. for 4 months)... look what ran in the Star.

Karma eh Kyle??



Why is an answer too much to ask?
TORY ZIMMERMAN/TORONTO STAR FILE PHOTO


Photo caption:
Kyle Rae, here joking around before Pride Week two years ago, is as rude to constituents as other politicians. Being openly gay doesn't mean he's open.


May 24, 2008 04:30 AM
Brent Ledger


Odd to think that people were excited when Kyle Rae became Toronto's first openly gay city councillor in 1991, almost as if we thought his gayness would make a difference. Oh, how our innocence has fled.

I've interviewed Rae a couple of times over the years but I had never approached him as a constituent until this winter, when I called his office to complain about some noise in his ward. Actually, I called four times over the space of three months. Three times, a message said someone would get back to me shortly. No one ever did.

Once, I even reached a real person and the real person assured me that he would look into the complaint and someone would get back to me. That was seven weeks ago. No one ever has.

The cynics among you may think this par for the course. We are, after all, talking about politicians, and who ever said they were there to serve the people who elected them?

But I've contacted lots of politicians over the years, from most political parties and all levels of government, and I have almost always received a reply and even sometimes – get this – some help.

In fact, it wasn't until a few years ago, when I found myself in the unlovely hands of Carolyn Bennett, the Liberal MP for St. Paul's, that I first encountered Rae-level indifference – an indifference bordering on contempt. I wrote (emailed) or called her three times and she never replied, until a friend who happens to be a well-connected Liberal dropped into her office and told her I was a journalist. Then she called back.

Political replies are usually something less than intimate expressions of personal concern and nobody understands that better than I.

Many years ago, I worked as a temp in the solicitor general's office churning out replies to irate voters about some now long-forgotten scandal and I vividly recall that the most difficult part of the task was not crafting the response (which was done elsewhere) but merging hundreds of names and addresses with the same bland reply.

Still, any reply is better than none, and at least it makes you feel heard.

Smart politicians know that and they work hard at maintaining contact with their constituents. David Miller, for instance, is no great shakes as a mayor. After almost five years in office, he's done – well, what has he done? The Gardiner is still standing, the waterfront has been clobbered by condos and the TTC is a ramshackle money pit. But to give the man credit, he's smart enough to hire good constituency people who keep him in touch with the grassroots.

Send his office an email and you usually get a response within the day.

It probably won't address your concerns directly, more likely wriggling off topic in the approved say-nothing political style. But you'll get the sense, however illusory, that you're part of a functioning democracy.

Voter turnout in this country is notoriously low, especially at the municipal level, and the pundits scrunch up their brows and wonder why. But, really, what's the surprise? Between obvious examples of democracy flouted (see the Bush-Gore election in the U.S. or civic amalgamation here) and active displays of political indifference, the wonder is that anyone shows up.

Democracy depends on a dialogue between voters and elected officials and, when either side shuts down, there's nothing much to encourage participation or debate.

Ignore people long enough and they'll eventually go away.

If politicians really want to engage the voters, they might try dialling back the contempt.

Brent Ledger appears every second Saturday. You can reach him at
living@thestar.ca.

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http://www.thestar.com/article/427928
 
Kyle was his usual perfectly charming self at the meet-and-greet open house with constituents on Parliament Street the same day. I occasionally run into him at events all over town and he's always cheerful and approachable.
 
I don't get it. A lengthy column in the Star because a city counsellor doesn't return a message? Surely there are more pressing issues on the public agenda.

I recently had a problem for which someone in Rae's office gave me prompt and effective service. I suppose "noise" isn't one of Kyle's pet issues.

I sense a growing groundswell against Rae because he is probably, now, perceived as the most pro-development of counsellors. I wonder whether that's what really underlies this petty attack.
 
I don't get it. A lengthy column in the Star because a city counsellor doesn't return a message? Surely there are more pressing issues on the public agenda.

Than whether or not our elected representation is actually willing to represent us? Seems like a rather pressing issue to me.

I recently had a problem for which someone in Rae's office gave me prompt and effective service. I suppose "noise" isn't one of Kyle's pet issues.

I sense a growing groundswell against Rae because he is probably, now, perceived as the most pro-development of counsellors. I wonder whether that's what really underlies this petty attack.

Maybe in Brent Ledger's case (while we're pulling assumptions out of thin air; maybe he's just homophobic, or a misandrist). In 3D's case though, Rae made a very inappropriate comment that he should be held accountable to.
 
If Rae willfully ignored the man's messages, then yes, he was wrong to do so, but I repeat my point -- the offense was not worthy of a lengthy tirade in the paper, especially when other councillors are guilty of far worse -- on the personal, as well as the policy, fronts.

It's all a matter of proportion
 
If Rae willfully ignored the man's messages, then yes, he was wrong to do so, but I repeat my point -- the offense was not worthy of a lengthy tirade in the paper, especially when other councillors are guilty of far worse -- on the personal, as well as the policy, fronts.

Brent Ledger doesn't have to write about every other injustice in the world before he earns the right to write about this one. The column was about Rae not responding to a constituent's concerns. When we elect people to represent us only to find out that they won't represent us (whether through willful act, or well-intended absent-mindedness) we should be open and vocal. If you're apathetic about your role as a public representative, then you should consider alternative employment. No?
 
If Rae willfully ignored the man's messages, then yes, he was wrong to do so, but I repeat my point -- the offense was not worthy of a lengthy tirade in the paper, especially when other councillors are guilty of far worse -- on the personal, as well as the policy, fronts.

It's all a matter of proportion

Oh, booh frackin' hooh. These guys get elected once and they are practically there for life because they cut deals with developers who fill their war chests with loot. (all in the public records, and Kyle has the highest proportion of corporate donations in the past, more than he can spend). Only one councillor of 44 was defeated in 2006. They spend 53K a year on communications sending out newsletters telling us how great they are and taking credit for stuff other people do. They fly all over the globe, get a month off in the summer and a month over Christmas. They get free TTC passes and still Kyle cabs it to City Hall and back because he's too damned lazy to walk a block to the subway station.So a little criticism now and then is certainly in order. By the way, Brent Ledger is gay, and not homophobic. If you read the column, it wasn't about a call not being returned. It was about a series of messages that were not responded to, and when he called a fourth time the person promised to get back and didn't. This is democracy. Criticism is part of the action. If it was your issue not getting responded to, you wouldn't think it was petty. And this was a reporter, who has written in the Star and the gay press. Your average schmuck doesn't even have a column in the paper. You can be damned sure that he represents many others without column inches. And by the way, no-one is more critical of others than Kyle Rae, who can be absolutely vicious. Good to see the shoe on the other foot for once. Balance is long overdue. (and by the way, whoever said about Parliament Street? That isn't in his ward).
 
If Rae willfully ignored the man's messages, then yes, he was wrong to do so, but I repeat my point -- the offense was not worthy of a lengthy tirade in the paper, especially when other councillors are guilty of far worse -- on the personal, as well as the policy, fronts.

It's all a matter of proportion

Proportion? That's ironic. Is the column an offence so egregious that it's worth your tirades here? I'm sure there are more important issues you could be working on than complaining that someone is being mean to a 100K a year politician. And the other politicians who do worse? IT IS COVERED. That stuff is in the paper all the time. Every one of my downtown friends knows who Rob Ford is, even those who don't know who their councillor is. Kyle Rae has had a free ride for a long time. They guy didn't say that Kyle murdered puppies or tramped on the tulips. He said that KYLE's OFFICE DIDN"T RETURN FOUR CALLS! That's all he said. One, or even two can slip through the cracks. But four? That's evidence of a systemic contempt.
 
I believe "Contempt" is indeed the key word here.

There is also a "sense of entitlement" that can creep in when one feels "tenured" in a job (despite being a public servant who must actually be re-elected to keep his job).

Rae's former Executive Assistant, Michael Robertson, did a superb job of shielding his boss from any perceived indifference, contempt or even laziness, at least from my experience on more than one occasion (Cathedral Square was actually the second time I sent an a idea to Rae's office for review/possible abassadorial assistance).).

Michael stayed in touch for months with enthusiastic email responses and assurances that Rae's office was gung ho on the Cathedral Square idea... and would help from an ambassadorial/information pov.

Even if he was "keeping me on the hook" without really planning to get his boss involved, I never became angry about the much delayed "promises" because Michael seemed like such a great guy (via email at least). Of course I remained determined to see one of those offers delivered, but my impatience was tempered by Michael's bed-side manner. Human nature stuff.

Rae's new EA was much more direct (honest?)... "there's nothing we can do". Not sure if he will be as effective at shielding/protecting the market value of his boss' public persona.

Ironically, I was not only trying to contribute to the public realm in Rae's ward... it's my ward too. He's my councillor.

"I'm not only own Hair Club for Men (Cathedral Square), I'm a customer!".

Perhaps if I had limited my contact with Rae's office to a noise complaint, I'd have eventually gotten through (before Brent Ledger does!).
 

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