Even if you dismiss the validity of MSA populations, my point still stands.
Actually, not really. The very reason those MSA pops aren't useful comparisons is the same as why the situation in the US is still behind that in Europe. In Europe, even France, the landscape is dotted by dense, compact towns and cities with relatively few people living in between. On the other hand, even in northeast cities like Providence or Hartford (among others), very quickly outside of the core the cityscape drops off dramatically into sparse sprawls of single houses (or at most, triple-deckers) with relatively big lots; the NEC, effectively, is one huge sprawl with 4.5 denser clusters. Of those 1M or so people in the MSAs, only about 1/5 actually live in the "city" area, the rest spread out into the sprawl (the Providence numbers also include all the huge swaths of beach resorts, summer settlements and retirement enclaves in RI that hardly contribute meaningfully to an "urban" metro). This is the type of development that makes North America, even the NEC, much harder to be served well by good transit and railway. Railway and transit in the NEC is actually increasingly successful
despite of this, with more people willing to drive 30 min to an hour to the commuter rail station and take that for another hour or two into Boston, New York, Philly and DC (or for that matter, commuting 2-3 hrs on rail from Maine into Boston, or midstate NY into NYC, midstate PA into Philly, or VA into DC).
And the automobile rose just as much in Europe as here
Wrong. While car ownership in several European countries did reach levels comparable to North America, automobile usage is significantly less, perhaps for a variety of reasons - government policies, gas prices, density of cities, culture, etc.
Actually the most populated parts of Scandinavia and Scotland, with the densest rail networks, are contributors to EU funds, not recipients.
And those networks were largely completed 100-150 years ago, so of course EU funds didn't go into them.
Or consider Russia, which doesn't benefit from some continent-wide authority and is quite a bit less wealthy than us.
I hardly think Russia, or for that matter China, would be comparable socially/politically to North America.
even without EU money Spain's would be better.
I don't think anyone had travelled to the alternate reality where that is true for this statement to be meaningful.
It doesn't necessarily have to be more expensive than what we're building now, we can just shift some of our focus from highways to rail. For example, instead of building a freeway from Kitchener to Brantford, build a rail line instead. That whole region should have a network of fast, frequent regional rail lines connecting its cities. Or consider smaller towns like Owen Sound, Leamington, and Lindsay. The MTO is planning 4 lane expressways to all of them. If you can justify a 4 lane highway to Lindsay you can justify a rail line. If it's competitive with driving people will use it. And you might even have enough money left over to add some more passing lanes to Highway 35.
As a rail enthusiast, I am all for it. But I think we will have a hard time making this politically palatable enough for many politicians to be willing to take up the cause right now.