As I mentioned in my previous post, I'm not demonizing the people that live in these developments. What is depressing is the physical environs of these new cities, and the car dependency that results. From there, a whole host of problems arise...emissions, obesity, road rage, etc.
Regarding your reference to New York and Paris in your post, all I said is that if a city the physical size of New York can support the millions of people it does, then Toronto has a long way to go in terms of realizing greater density. Not sure where your Paris reference came from, and the Kowloon reference that you're obsessed with is a complete red herring.
Oh yeah, and I'd take a million Bay Streets over the garbage that's being built in communities such as Milton.